How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:02
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What are some good inspirational movies?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Why does Africa have all mineral resources but she is suffering economically?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Does not procrastinate.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What parts of the Bible, if any, are inappropriate to read to children? Why?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Making more friends is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Do you think the constitution and laws should be taught in school?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
—— which songs do certain kuorans remind you of?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How much stronger is an average man than an average woman?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
That's it for today.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.